I had written this poem in 2023 as I was working on a painting them of women in empowerment. You can see some of my art in the website but for me this is a powerful truth. Hope you enjoy x
What is it ?
this Empowerment thing?
Is it me ?
Is it you ?
Do we have that thing:... that it brings?
I am a woman, once a daughter
people see me as a mother,
a housewife, , A dog walker
A great talker
A professional who wears a suit
A painter dressed in rags
A woman like no other
Bringing different stories and visions of what is our life , our tag…
But…
what is it??
This Empowerment thing?
is it just a word to be said
Then forgotten about
In your head
Is Empowerment just a word to be seen
In the magazines
For the rich and famous like Rihanna or the Queen
Empowerment is like love or the wind
It cant been seen but certainly felt
Inside.
It is something that is alive
Living in every woman and child
Who strive
To be their bestest self
I cannot lie.
Empowerment is not something you can buy
Or something you can hold
Its like the wind, not seen but certainly felt.
Although if you look closely enough
you can see it in their eyes
Like gold
Shining from within
A SUPERWOMAN you say,
everything can be done, nothing seems difficult to achieve
Although really look at women in times of dismay
when they are down, feeling lost
Losing confidence , feeling unworthy from their limiting beliefs,
dark thoughts of … am I good enough?
to be the BOSS
of MYSELF
Striving to be better…..
What do you do when feeling down?
You stand together
and fix their crown 👑
You do that
Empowering women or women empowerment
Is it the same thing ?
Does it give the same ring
Top achievers so I have heard
But do we not all strive to be our bestest self
That strong woman who constantly fails and rises to succeed
That person who will not be left on the shelf
A question to be asked ?
Empowerment….
Is it top achievers …
Only women who have reached the top of the work game?
I've been telt
Or is being a mother , with a clear vision, values, free speech and fire in their eyes
....... not the same ?
I ask you to define women empowerment
Is it like the wind, it cant be seen but certainly felt
Receiving flowers are nice,
all sugar and spice
A feeling of being appreciated
Or maybe just over rated
Is it a token of appreciation and love?
Or something given to us because of our sex
A right of passage
To idolize......
Sad but true....
Do we need others to buy us flowers
We are what we are by having our own vision
Not by what is seen of an old tradition
They call us the bitch because we now have a voice
We seem strong ..........Is that wrong ?
To have an opinion,
a thought, a voice
Where when years gone by,
we didn't have a choice
To live our life as we see fit
As a result of the oppression , the subordination,
the stay at home wife
to which we had to submit.
The trouble and strife ...to be that good wife
But for who……not for you.....
Empowerment has opened a new door
Through which we can build our lives differently
And explore,
The gift of life, opportunities and living as we should always have been
To use our bodies and our brains, ..,..
And enable us to be equal in a society without being tamed
The inner child we had to leave
To believe we are in adulthood
Is that good?
We need that now,
To show us how Empowered women can be gentle, innocent and good
But still have the drive to change the world, their world
Into something that benefits us all
Although many are thinking ?
Have we gone too far with empowering women?
And forgotten .....the role the male counterpart plays
Should they not also reach the bar?
Of changing the mindset of the holy grail
And join with us so that we will not fail
In our quest to have equality, mastering ourself and our true power
Be the best person of yourself, the best you can be
Do what you want .....not what they want ,
Not what society wants,
Not what family wants,
Not what work life wants
Self esteem is what you need to see
Not fit into others thoughts
And lifes tragedies
Be yourself, knowing your self worth as that, can never be bought.